Men don’t gossip? Says who?
In fashion industry, models gave their reviews about men that they are more intense gossipers than women and the most favorite job of men is to shop and gossip about girls. It is surely hard to find a man who has never indulged in juicy gossip. A woman may never talk about her personal life the way men discuss theirs. Men can easily tell their personal life and blunders involving girls with their friends, which they may have experienced in life. Infact, they don’t just share their stories with their friends but actually laughs and backbites about the women who got caught in their stunts. They feel so proud while, discussing girlish matters.
Men generally pretend as if doing gossip is not a good practice and dislike this particular trait of woman, sometimes they even criticize women for doing so. A group of five beautiful female friends explained that men like to pretend as ‘cool dudes’ but in veracity, men are equally curious to know who their ex-girl friend is dating these days.
Sometimes, girls get into gossips so that they do not look like the odd one out, even if they do not enjoy the conversations or even the party for that matter. But is it similar for man? In this regard, a lecturer has mentioned that both men and women have same characteristics and though gossiping is primarily considered to be a ‘women only’ forte, we must not ignore the fact that there are men as well who are equally as interested in it as women.
There is a huge difference in the way women and men gossip with their friends and family, but it’s really not as simple as discussing shopping versus football. There is an unusual perception about men in the society that even if they do gossips, they might just talk about sports or boasting about accomplishments like increase in pay and rise is stick markets etc. But that’s not the fact; they talk about stuff that is beyond a girl’s imaginations at times. Men are really not as naïve as they look; their gossips can be more discomfiture if compared with women’s. Furthermore, it is considered that, for men gossiping brings them closer and make them best buddies of all times.